要讓面試官“一見鐘情”
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我從事人力資源管理工作已超過30年了,在這30年中,可謂“閱人無數”。中國是公司的重點市場,在這十年,我在上海、北京、廣州投入大量時間,接觸到那里很多優秀的人才。這十年的經驗使我受益良多,在華語的溝通和語言能力方面,我都比以前強多了。 我的工作主要是為公司物色優秀人才。我想從我的角度,來和大家談談關于面試的話題。希望讀者看過文章后,能獲取適合的信息,幫助自己更好地為要應征的工作做好準備。 如果一個好朋友邀請你參加他的婚宴,去之前,你肯定會花點時間給自己打扮一下,因為這代表對朋友的尊重。同樣的,去參加工作面試,首先也要穿著得體。如果穿著不適合,對一個求職人員是很不利的。 第一次的見面非常關鍵 在面試中,第一次的見面非常關鍵。如果一看上去就不順眼,失去工作機會的可能性就很大。既然你已花了許多心思和精力去申請工作,那么不關注自己的穿著打扮,確實是個粗心的行為。 我想起以前親身經歷的一個難忘例子。有一名女士,她的學歷背景非常強,我在看過她寄給我的簡歷后,非常期望能與她見面。從我們的工作需求和她的條件相比,我有信心在面試談話時,能找到雙方的共識。但讓我驚訝的是,當我見到走進會議室的應征者時,竟然看到一個既不梳頭,又只穿拖鞋的女士,這一瞬間使我忘掉了之前對她的書面判斷。不到15分鐘,我與她的面談便告一段落。 能使面試官“一見鐘情”是非常關鍵的。對于求職者而言,能抓住機會,在未來的雇主面前充分地展示自己,給對方留下一個好印象,那么被雇用的機會便開始存在。 自作聰明不會有好處 我最看不慣的,就是那種喜歡自夸的求職者。求職者在面試時,應在短時間內說明自己的優勢和長處,而不應該浪費時間夸大或膨脹自己的能力,否則會害了自己。因為面試官顯然不是個笨蛋,他總會很快看穿真假。 首先,面試者應該用簡歷的要點,去說服雇主為什么自己是所要尋找的合格對象。遇到不會回答的問題,就要直截了當地說不會。在面試時,自作聰明不會帶來任何實惠。 此外,參加面試和參加考試確實不同。當一個雇主發現他喜歡一個候選人的時候,他會考慮如何去聘用。面試不是精密科學,主觀性的判斷永遠存在。 當雇主認為你的能力強而且人品可靠,他會留意你。如果不被入選,原因一般是另外一個候選人的背景和條件比你更強。我相信以后當公司還有其他工作機會的時候,你會獲得優先考量,因為在參加面試時,你給雇主留下了一個好印象。其實,公司主動去邀請以前曾經面試過的候選對象,是很常見的事。因此留下一個好印象,和做一項好投資的價值是一樣的。長遠的回報總是好的,這就像要給自己建立品牌一樣。 面試沒有層級的高低之分 需要注意的是,面試不是高層與下級的對話,沒有層級的高低之分。求職人員應該先對自己說,這是一個日常的會議。只要你有充足的準備,你就可以充滿自信地去參加面談。 面試其實是雙方面的評估。除了雇主,你也在考慮是否愿意加入公司為他們工作服務。我認為每次參加面試時,你都應該帶著這種心態。這不但不會增加你的壓力和負擔,而且多次學習,還會增加你的經驗。 不論求職經驗會不會帶給你一份聘用合同,只要你愿意學習,所付出的都能得來回報。天下無難事,只怕有心人,現在的就業市場很好,有很多不錯的工作機會和選擇。只要有耐心,成功就在門外。
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